eyes to the eyes

It's a mystery to me how all things of your surrounding around you can be suffocated and vacuumed out whenever you find yourself diving deep into the intoxication giving by looking across the table into the beautiful eyes that you see so much in. Fascinating isn't it? In the eyes of individuals you can actually see passion, hurt, wisdom, and love. I have this habit. I am a people watcher. I really enjoy watching other people live their lives without the stage offset - the idea that they are being watched. So, I see these arbitrary people in random acts like: Take a hit off their cigarette and smile at their friend's story. Or a little girl with the life that sings innocence runs into her dads arms because she seen the least possible alarming bug, that alarmed her. Or two people at the park, trapped in love, standing under a tree by the stream. They stand looking at each other face to face with nothing else on their minds, but each other.I watch my grandmother whom, to me is literally the most adorable person that has ever lived. She really does that this striking beauty that intrigues me. I wish she was famous so that everyone can enjoy her charm. In every individual situation there is so much substance. In every person there is more. In the eyes is where it starts. Ever watch someone cry? Did it move you? Ever watch anyone surprised? Did your eyes expand to catch the climax? Watch peoples eyes when someone is in that shady and questioning "I think you did something wrong" You'll just see them close their eyes slightly almost taunting you. Then, of course, there are always the eyes of love, the eyes that are drowning in romance. You certainly can interpret many things from watching people and closely giving attention to the eyes they're watching you with. Or, maybe they're avoiding your look, which has it's implications of communication as well. Regardless of how they look or your interpretations, there are always stories behind the eyes thus; a substance into that person that you judged way before you knows who they are.
--That little girl may dress like a whore, but, she's probably over compensating for the confidence issue she's had, so when you see her eyes… you see… search for attention because she didn't get it from the places she should have.
--You see that college age guy with a social problem. But, you can't tell him that! Because in his own eyes, he is pompous about this "intellect" that he gains and gains from all the video games, TV shows, and movies that he ultimately obscures his perception. He's a social outcast. So in his eyes you see…bitterness… He's relishing in the far fantasies of a porn addiction. Yet, you see him. You judge him. His all black attire is uninviting and a bit of a stand off. But, you didn't know that his Dad beat him. You can't tell that there is bigger problems there.
--Or, the classic frat guy who manipulates girl's awareness of him to get them in bed with them, the mind games and the missed calls. It's all good to them, they don't care, they're looking for a piece of meat. In his eyes you see…pride…. But, behind his the actions and pride you didn't see that he was overweight as a child. Got made fun of and cried him self to sleep countless nights.
So, keep in mind whatever you see in someone may not be what they see in themselves. Always you should use your words to encourage and lift up. Look deeply into peoples eyes and give someone the chance for substance.